Drama in Lolita Land ;/

Warning: this is kind of a venting post ;P

Now, I HATE that Behind the Bows site & all the stupid Loli Secrets...but...some of my friends check it every once in a while & it's good because...There was a secret made about me(& a bunch of my friends) O_O  But, here's the thing...for mine, it wasn't an ACTUAL picture of an outfit from a Lolita event...it was a random "Lolita-like" outfit when I hung out with a friend...& the other was from my "Lolita stuff I bought" fb album >_<

And I was semi-okay with one of them, but the other...of me, NOT IN LOLITA...showing a recent purchase...I CAN'T FORGIVE!! So, I wanted to write a response post about it...here's the picture & what they said about it...

I believe the comment was "How is this Lolita??"

WELL, considering I bought this from someone on the EGL COMM SALES, which is a LOLITA SALES GROUP...AND, A rather STRICT ONE AT THAT!! They catch ANYTHING & EVERYTHING that ISN'T LOLITA!!  

And then, this picture, which was on a random photo album on my facebook proves it's someone i know/knew personally...so it's good i found out...i can do some filtering...

But, a bunch of people agreed with the post, so to show how this bag CAN & IS LOLITA WORTHY...HERE ARE SOME PICTURES!!

 Technically, I used the bag for a cosplay idea, but this is the only pic i'm holding it as a bag ;)

And, just for fun, here's a breakdown of my outfit:

Blouse: Baby the Stars Shine Bright

Skirt: Alice and the Pirates

Socks: Metamorphose

Shoes: Demonia

 A completely Lolita outfit with my violin bag...which i think matches PERFECTLY XD

 And, it can also be a prop...so...I think it's even BETTER ^^...Duo Purpose!! ^_^

I still hate that site, but i guess I've learned my lesson & I will be more careful when posting pictures...it's just so sad it happened in our small Lolita Community...sigh...

I also don't like to post blogs like this, but...i'm mad that this person would DARE to use non-lolita pics >_<

Sorry for this & even though I feel I should update my blog more often...i hate that it had to be something like this...sigh... :/